The best love is the love that makes you a better person without changing the person you are. Change is inevitable and some believe that one should not change in a relationship and that is unrealistic. Growing together will bring change, kids, jobs, moves, frustrations, infidelity; your core may stay the same but every day we change. Some change is necessary and normal, but when a person attempts to change just so that another person will like/love them, that is not love, it is a habit .You should be yourself no matter what and if the other person doesn't like it, then they are not the one for you and once again change is inevitable. I will fill myself with love and share it with the world. How others treat me is their Karma their path, how I choose to respond is mine.